A Field Guide To Talkative Barflies
by Bill Tuomala
"As a fellow
abusive drinker you are honor bound by barstool etiquette to sit there and
listen to every word I have to say." - Dr. Cox from Scrubs Aside
from those pesky health hazards your doctor warns you about in his "only
two drinks per day" talk (what part of "Finnish writer"
doesn't that dude understand?), perhaps the biggest hazard of spending time
in bars is being dragged into conversations with barflies. A good meditation,
buzz, or hypnotic gaze into a game on TV can be damaged or outright ruined by
some sauced-up regular who feels the need to talk. What follows is a brief
field guide to some of the individuals that may meet you in a watering hole
and talk your ear off soon. When in doubt, smile and suck it up. JUKEBOX
HOG
Typical
attire: In the words of the Stray Cats: "A real square cat he looks
1974." He
will pump dollar after dollar into the jukebox and generally will play songs
only by one artist. Usually this will be a seventies AOR band such as Rush or
Pink Floyd. The diehard Uriah Heep fans that are left out there show
themselves in this situation. Don't be surprised if you hear the Firm for the
first time since the Kansas City Royals were still a force. Be careful to not
sing or lip-sync along with Humble Pie's "30 Days In The Hole." (I
learned this the hard way.) The conversations forced upon you will revolve
around the jukebox hog's fave band and how "fuckin' great" they
are. Do not dispute this and try to find some middle ground between showing
overdone faked interest in the band and showing your obvious apathy for the
band. Eventually, someone else will gain control of the jukebox and your new
buddy will fade into the night. SPORTS
GUY
Typical
attire: Sports team jerseys, hats, teeshirts, etc. After
the Twins were swept by the Oakland A's in the first round of the playoffs
last fall, Twins apparel was drastically marked down and I fulfilled a
long-time dream of getting a Twins blue "TC" hat and only paid
thirteen bucks for it. This proved to be my downfall in the bars as the hat
identified me as a sports fan. I had to bluff my way through many a
conversation with dedicated sports guys about starting pitching, utility
infielders, and players in Triple A. Sports
guy is generally friendly as long as a game or highlight show is on the TV.
If you nod along with his opinions and assessments, he'll go on and on and
mostly leave you alone. But if you are like me and have a propensity to show
off your trivia knowledge by, for instance, trying to name the starting
lineup of the 1970 Baltimore Orioles or referring to Oscar Robertson's
averaging a triple-double for an entire NBA season ... well you've been warned,
it will be a long night that
goes deep into the sports world arcane. Then again, when a bartender chips in
with a "Paul Blair!" as he pours a draft, it can totally make an
evening out. OVERLY
FRIENDLY OLDER GUY
Typical
attire: Varies. This
guy will give you unsolicited advice on subjects that you either have
mastered or have no concern about. The same advice will be repeated over and
over and over. You'll end up promising to never get multiple tattoos or to
start a smoking habit. You will have to pledge again and again and again. He
will either hit you up for a drink or more likely will buy you a shot. He
will feel sheepish when he finds out you're much older then he imagined.
Resist the urge to ask him: If you're so full of wisdom, then why are you
in the same bar every night cornering people with the same unnecessary
advice? And
if he gives you his phone number ... well it's understood that it's not for you
to call and ask for help, capiche? HIPSTER
Typical
attire: Silly facial hair, goofy hat, dorky glasses, never shows a smile (a
smirk is ever-present.) Like
most of indie whitebread rock - which takes decent, swinging rhythm sections
and decent, passionate vocalists out of rock 'n' roll - hipsters substitute
irony for anything that might make a better ingredient. These jokers have
irony confused with wit and aside from choosing irony over wit, they also choose irony over passion and
irony over self-righteous indignation. They tend to take the joy out of a
nice bender. Raised in a sad subculture that has drained black influence out
of its music; the bands these clowns like never grew up having to play with
the expectation that people might like to dance, so you get music with crappy
rhythms. The crappy vocals come from the genre's hidden motto: indie rock
means not having to try hard. When
a hipster does karaoke, invariably he thinks he is funny by singing something
like Journey's "Faithfully." Instead, he does us aural harm by
reminding us of Steve Perry's whine and the rock-lite that Journey
specialized in. If the clown were truly funny, he'd instead do Journey's
"Separate Ways" and get his buddies in on it and recreate the
song's unintentionally hilarious video, complete with its on-the-waterfront
fist-pumping action. Ah hell, they'd blow it anyway - hipsters simply can't
be funny. No
worry, the hipster generally is too above it all to want to talk to you,
you're just a regular Joe. But there are the rare ones that do feel compelled
to corner you into a conversation. And in such a case, there is nothing more
fun than serving up solid middle American values to 'em in spades. Hence
arguments such as: Waylon Jennings over Elvis Costello; Creedence over the
Velvet Underground; AC/DC over the Ramones; Paul Revere and the Raiders over
anybody. Also be sure to assert - correctly - that the MC5 and the Stooges
were first and foremost metal bands. You get secret bonus points if you call
the hipster's preferred brew a "Blue" or indiscriminately yell:
"PBR me ASAP!" THE
TERMINAL Typical
attire: Varies. This
guy is the wild card. Be careful - once you make eye contact, you are sunk.
He usually speaks in gibberish that is tough to interpret. Many times it
helps to smile and give a thumbs-up. He may start to swear at you but is more
likely to declare you a "good friend." Don't be surprised if on
your second encounter with him, he tells the exact same story he told you the
last time you saw him. As incredibly drunk as this person can be, it'll be
tough to shake his attention once you are in his (double) sights. If it gets
to be too much, you may have to cut your losses and sadly, leave the bar.
Don't take it too hard - even Dr. Cox would have left long before you did. |
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